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Everyone’s issue

How we can all help prevent sexual assault

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All students have a role in the effort to build safer and socially comfortable campuses. Research shows that only a small number of men on campus are responsible for most of the sexual assaults. “The truth is many more men would prefer to interrupt this stuff than buy into it,” says Lee Scriggins, an expert in bystander intervention education at the University of Colorado Boulder.

Much of the time, it’s not even about preventing a potential assault. “We ask students to act when they see anyone looking even a bit uncomfortable. By making bystander intervention low-key and routine, we create a safety net that also supports mutuality and respect. Everyone has a role,” says Dr. Melanie Boyd, assistant dean of student affairs at Yale University.

It’s often easy to take effective action

Bystander intervention efforts emphasize a range of direct and indirect ways to help make sure everyone is comfortable. These include resisting other people’s derogatory comments, which signal a potentially toxic environment; creating openings for someone to extract themselves from a situation if they want to; and inserting yourself into a troubling conversation, changing the dynamic.

What you can achieve

  • Active bystanders can reduce harm and establish a safer community.
  • Active bystanders shift the blame away from victims and foster a sense of community responsibility.
  • Active bystanders model interventions for others, who may apply similar strategies in the future.
Thought bubble: What if I confront him and it leads to a fight? I'm not even sure she's in danger. I'll say her roommate's looking for her...that gives her an out if she wants it. Thought bubble: If I pull him off her, will I be accused of blocking his chances? I'll act drunk and collapse on him. I'm pretty sure the other guys would want to interrupt this too. Thought bubble: Is this even my business? Sure...and someone needs to do some damage control here. But this one's beyond me. I'll call the campus police. Thought bubble: I don't know whether Sam would assault him, but Greg's definitely having a bad time. I don't want anyone feeling that way at my place. Time to break this up. We'll send Sam out to pick up the pizza.

More ways to disrupt potentially harmful situations

Suggestive Comment

A classmate makes a sexually suggestive comment to another student

  • Direct response: "Whoa! That's awkward."
  • Indirect response: "That was awkward and a bit much."
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Party Pressure

At a party, a guy seems to be paying way too much attention to another student

  • Direct response: "What are you, desperate? Knock it off."
  • Indirect response: "Hey, I've got someone you need to meet."
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Following Someone

Walking across campus with friends, a student suggests you all follow someone

  • Direct response: "What's your point? No, that's stupid."
  • Indirect response: "Let's get out of here and catch the event in the quad."
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Aggressive

A loud guy announces he’s going to get with a girl that night

  • Direct response: "I dare you to get with someone who wants to get with you."
  • Indirect response: Keep tabs on the situation through the night to see if he's blowing smoke or if sex is his goal no matter what.
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